Well...whether u end things or he does, break-ups are hard. It hurts so much. Usually, after break-ups..makanan2 yang carbo tinggi seperti cookies and etc akan menyusuri kehidupan.. :)..hmmm bg yg nak gain weight blh la break-ups je memanjang. Truly said, relationships end for a reason, it's just too bad that many of us are completely unable to remember the reason when we're elbow deep in OREOS and crying at the latest Chris Brown song..So Cold..
Why do we always have such a hard time letting go? You tell me.. do we actually miss the guy or just miss being in a relationship.?
For me breaking up is a major change! It means saying goodbye to those sweet good morning texts, romantic dinner dates, movie dates, bouquet of flowers, nice and cool present, (what? it’s usually the thing I miss most!), and hello to a completely new life. We feel vulnerable and lonely and ready to run right back to our ex before we even have a chance to live alone. The same ex who wasn’t giving me what i needed or deserved.
How do I move on?
Simple: I have to figure out what i really miss. Is it the boyfriend or is it a boyfriend?
And most of the time it’s the latter...:)
Face it: I don’t want him, but i want it and i can find it with someone else. Someone who is way better at it.
Well, nak jadi single ni isn't easy guy...tapi if wanna go back to a bad relationship isn't the answer. Sometimes kena juga out dari comfort zone kita sendiri and find what really makes us happy. It’s like getting ready to go out; taking off those sweats and squeezing into a pair of skinny jeans, but just think about how much better you feel once you’ve changed.
There is a difference between comfort and love and when you finally wake up and distinguish between the two, you’ll find what you’re really looking for.
What do you guys think? After a breakup do you really miss the guy, or the comfort of the relationship? ............................
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